Is thinking about sex with someone other than your partner cheating? How often do women fantasize? What do we gals fantasize about? Does fantasizing about a someone of the same gender mean you’re gay?
While there are no universal answers to these questions, I promise you there is nothing shameful about fantasizing. Whatever tickles your Girl Boner and doesn’t hurt anyone (and fantasies generally don’t) is a-okay. Embracing your spicy daydreams, on the other hand, can bring mega rewards.
Last week I had lots of fun chatting with Kendra Sunderland, aka “The Library Girl.” The award-winning, weed-loving porn star and I explored her personal journey, her thoughts on slut-shaming, how she and her boyfriend navigate their open relationship and some of women’s top fantasies, including threesomes, sex with a stranger, domination and submission, sex with your partner and more!
Dr. Megan Fleming also shared awesome insight for a listener who has recently taken on erotica reading, much to her Girl Boner’s delight! In doing so, however, she discovered that buzzkill known as guilt. *insert droopy Girl Boner emoji*
Whether you fantasize often or infrequently, want to learn more about the role the mind can play in female sexual pleasure or get ideas to explore on your own or with a partner, this episode is for you!